Ndjerareou Journey

A Union of Wanderers, Big Sur

It all started when young a pair of dear friends asked, “Will you witness our journey into forever? Will you join us at the edge of the world? Will you seal our sacred covenant with God in a place that makes our hearts ache with wonder and our hearts worship at his majesty? Will you join us in our joy as we celebrate what God has united?

It’s easy to wax poetically about a cliff side wedding in Big Sur, California. For Megan and Nate the location was everything. The remoteness of this spot forced the simplicity and intimacy they craved. Megan a student of sculpture and Nate a film entrepreneur were looking for the perfect setting for the occasion, one that was as epic as the moment, a union of wanderers.

Together, Nathanael and I had just crested ten years of marriage and the view was even sweeter in the setting. When two travelers unite it’s a collision of loneliness and independence wrapped in sonnets and dream.  The adventurer hungers for the safety of kindred spirits, embraces life quickly, laughs and toasts the sojourner easily.  The wanderer has always found hope in a distant destination, held loosely to the present and said many goodbyes.

As my husband ushered these two into marriage it was comfortable to fall into step with my traveling partner. Traveling with an old love is a testimony of grace; letting it wash over you it becomes a new form of pleasure. Ten years of marriage and you can’t hide your disappointment, frustration or exhaustion from one another. You also can’t run from yourself, you are fully known in both the old and the new. At the same time, he understands the sparkle in your eye as you slip into a glass of rum, the pleasure of a sidewalk café, or the heat of the sun.  Knowing his moods, his soul, what he carries with him, give me patience to linger in places I used to rush past.

In an undiscovered corner of the world, I delight in uncasing a new box of dreams with my beloved, the ones that have been waiting for the right mood, the right moment. The conversation is spiced with the foreign, old problems left in our suitcases, a new adventure brings renewal and together we go further into the unexpected.

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The child of missionary parents, writing became a natural was to process my adventures across the world.

Ndjerareou means 'he who builds the road in Ngambai, Nate's tribal language spoken in Chad, Africa.

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  • After 25 years, my husband returned to the site of his first solo adventure in France. This wonderful family invited him in as a teenager and a family friend to be immersed in French. 
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The Pont Du Gard is a Roman aqueduct built in 1st century AD to carry water 31 miles from a spring in Uzes to the Roman colony at Nimes. 
It's engineering is an obvious marvel, part of the wonder is simply that it's still standing. What fascinates me is how many of the rectangular, honeycomb, yellow, limestone, bricks have made it in to the ancient churches and homes all around us. Locals proudly show you the parts of the Pont that have been recycled by their ancient ancestors. Once you know what to look for you notice how many of the foundations of these local villages are built out of the building blocks of their one time conquerors.  Creative destruction at its best? .
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  • Nate travels light, especially with vacation expectations. People watching on a patio, a slow day at the beach, watching his children giggle and experience the world.  It's about all he asks for-- this year he wondered out loud if we could catch part of the Tour De France. Thanks @katetravels2 for the great setup.  A beach & the tour! A match made in heaven for family travel. 
The kids stamina has really increased, they hiked a couple of kilometers in Marseille and enjoyed watching the bikes but they also loved giving daddy an experience after receiving so many great ones in return. For Christmas years ago, Nate took Sophia (three at the time) through the Musee D'Orsay so I could linger and enjoy the Monet's,  Mattise and Renoir's. 
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